Jaclyn Beckerman Coaching

It blows my mind how many men have been asking me out lately.

Out of the woodworks, guys have been coming up to me and asking me out.

This hasn’t always been the case.  Although men certainly have asked me out plenty in the past this is a pretty noticeable surge.

What I realize is that the more I’ve come to love me, and the more I’ve shown myself to others without caring what they think, the more I seem to be attractive to others without even trying.

Basically, I’ve finally realized that I am a catch.  I am a pretty phenomenal woman and any guy would be lucky to have me.  Not in a stuck up, cocky or conceited way, I finally realize that I am valuable, interesting and perfect just as I am.  This isn’t to say that I don’t have more to learn and further to grow, but that whatever I believe, think or feel is perfectly alright and i can be completely candid about it without worrying I won’t be accepted.

That’s always been one of my things.  Before getting into transformational and higher consciousness work, I was SUCH a people pleaser.  I worried far too much about what people thought of me and was more interested in telling them what I thought they wanted to hear than I was open to telling them what I really thought or felt.

I’ve finally gotten comfortable in my own skin and confident enough to know that whatever I feel, think, or believe is valid and okay.  There is absolutely no reason to pretend to be someone I’m not.

And the end result?  I’m happy.  I keep getting present to being completely and totally satisfied with where I’m at and how my life is going.  Even though I don’t currently have everything I want and haven’t yet gotten where I want to be.  Things are good, and I’m happier than I’ve ever been.  And I’d say that’s pretty fantastic in the grand scheme of how life can go.