Comments on: False Beliefs http://jaclynbeckerman.com/2010/02/false-beliefs/ Live a Life of Transformation Fri, 16 Mar 2012 16:53:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Jaclyn Beckerman http://jaclynbeckerman.com/2010/02/false-beliefs/comment-page-1/#comment-69 Jaclyn Beckerman Fri, 02 Apr 2010 13:31:57 +0000 http://jaclynbeckerman.com/?p=493#comment-69 @Unblinded: Of course I don't mind! Thanks so much for sharing yourself here! Please continue to do so. :) @Unblinded: Of course I don’t mind! Thanks so much for sharing yourself here! Please continue to do so. :)

]]> By: =Unblinded= http://jaclynbeckerman.com/2010/02/false-beliefs/comment-page-1/#comment-68 =Unblinded= Fri, 02 Apr 2010 04:27:24 +0000 http://jaclynbeckerman.com/?p=493#comment-68 Being or feeling adequate enough in life for whatever you pursue is a fear almost everyone has. And it is a legitimate fear. However, what purpose does it really serve? If you consider that your focus is your reality, then you will most likely help create that fear come true. And any signs that make it seem that it might come true, you end up making it worse than they need to be. When in fact, failure is apart of achieving greatness. I used to be hard on myself as well. And what I learned is that is how, like you, I help push myself and create expectations for myself to achieve. However, at what cost? The problem with expecting too much from yourself is that when it doesn't work out, you end beating yourself up a lot more rather than focusing on a solution to help defeat your obstacle or to find courage to get up again. So it is good to push yourself so you can grow but its also wise to be able to get back up quickly and keep going. Finding balance with your tactics to move yourself, will help one achieve their potential. I enjoyed reading this article as you are right, one needs to accept or comes to terms with what they fear in order to know how to go beyond them. I hope you don't mind my input. Let me know if you do as the last the thing I want to do is sabotage your beautiful blog in anyway. Being or feeling adequate enough in life for whatever you pursue is a fear almost everyone has. And it is a legitimate fear. However, what purpose does it really serve? If you consider that your focus is your reality, then you will most likely help create that fear come true. And any signs that make it seem that it might come true, you end up making it worse than they need to be. When in fact, failure is apart of achieving greatness.

I used to be hard on myself as well. And what I learned is that is how, like you, I help push myself and create expectations for myself to achieve. However, at what cost?
The problem with expecting too much from yourself is that when it doesn’t work out, you end beating yourself up a lot more rather than focusing on a solution to help defeat your obstacle or to find courage to get up again. So it is good to push yourself so you can grow but its also wise to be able to get back up quickly and keep going. Finding balance with your tactics to move yourself, will help one achieve their potential.

I enjoyed reading this article as you are right, one needs to accept or comes to terms with what they fear in order to know how to go beyond them.

I hope you don’t mind my input. Let me know if you do as the last the thing I want to do is sabotage your beautiful blog in anyway.

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