Jaclyn Beckerman Coaching

People HATE change.

I was having this conversation with a friend the other day.  Without going into details, she’s really unhappy in her job yet is likely going to look for and end up in a similar position.  Sound familiar?  I bet.  This seems to be a common story among folks today.

People are so scared of change that they’ll do just about anything to keep things the same.  To remain comfortable with whatever seems stable.

Unfortunately though, if things aren’t the way you want them to be and you’re not totally happy, the ONLY way to have them go differently and have life be the way you want it to is to invite change in with an open heart.

It’s not the easy path to take.  No one ever said it was.  But it’s the only path to take if you’re looking to live a life of love, joy and satisfaction.  That is unless everything in your life is already absolutely amazing and you wouldn’t even think about changing a single thing in it.  If that’s you, kudos, you’re one of few.  If it’s not, consider that although change is the scarier way to go, everything you want is available to you on the other side of it.

I can honestly say that I’m am 100% a different person than I was a year and a half ago before becoming a coach and getting involved in transformative work.  I am also 100% happier, more fulfilled, more confident and more secure in the knowledge that I can create whatever I want.  All of this was possible ONLY because I took on and embraced change in a really big way.  I took on transforming my life in service of all the results I wanted.

It may have been scary at times, and I may not have always wanted to, but I’ll be damned if it was worth every second.